An update– Mom. Recovery. Dormancy. Mom had her aneurysm, the first wallop to her head that precipitated all the others issues that have happened in the years since, in 2005. That took place the day before her 65th birthday. In 2011, when friends and I took her to a fancy dinner for her 71st birthday… Continue reading Update, and Why this site is mostly quiet.
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Change in Direction for Donna’s Lessons
Since early July, Donna and I have continued to live our lives together while I have maintained regular contributions to DL here. I intend to draw this down, but nowhere near to a close. Why? Because my heart is making me do it.
The post it has taken five tries to write
I began writing a few different pieces for Donnas Lessons in recent days, but part way through I have been becoming exhausted. I simply cannot recount long stretches of the last few years without having the stress, fear, anxiety and ‘fight or flight’ responses from starting to take over my thoughts and feelings before I… Continue reading The post it has taken five tries to write
Summer Epilogue
Well! Mom returned from a respite away on Tuesday, a few days back. The weather was uncooperative with the possibility of getting away– I truly wanted to get into the woods, but it was not to be– yet I did manage to feel very much refreshed. Even being in my home alone will give me… Continue reading Summer Epilogue
Donna and Travel, take one.
Donna and I are nearing four years of co-habitation, but aside from camping trips we have not been able to travel since Donna needed regular help and moved in with me. This last year I have made strides in self-confidence and ability to ‘deal’ with the various challenges of caregiving with Donna– and as such… Continue reading Donna and Travel, take one.
Fleeing the Flames, chasing Donna’s Dreams
I have done more than inherit Mom’s preferences, she raised me with her habits. As a career teacher, she loved the outdoors of BC and elsewhere to a degree that getting into the woods was probably the single greatest benefit of being a teacher who had her summers off. I grew up knowing that at… Continue reading Fleeing the Flames, chasing Donna’s Dreams
Mom and her billy kid
Last week seemed designed to test this home a little– and the end result saw a lost camera that I had for several years, causing me to wonder how to record the best things Donna and I get up to. I am still a hold out against smart phones and as such have no camera… Continue reading Mom and her billy kid
Camp-fireside wisdom from Donna
Mom couldn’t get camping with a campfire until October, the weekend of the 7th to be exact. There are many moments from that part of our trip that mean a lot to me, but the one that truly messed with my head was strong enough to leave me a little stunned at the time and… Continue reading Camp-fireside wisdom from Donna
December 13, 2017: Mom surprisingly breaks out the Dylan
Figuring out what Mom knows musically has become a lovely hobby, pursued a few times a week. This was one of the moments that pushed me to find out more, and yes… there are more Dylan tunes she knows.
February 27, 2016: Watching political documentaries with Donna
Television with Mom is likely the thing we do together the most, as it is an easy default. But deciding what to watch is a struggle. Do we watch programs that she holds values about, but would likely not be able to follow in depth? What programming makes sense for her? Can I enjoy programs… Continue reading February 27, 2016: Watching political documentaries with Donna